"You've probably seen the flower that Henry always wears in his lapel. Honestly he only needs to wear that when we're not home but he always wears it anyway so I will never mistake him for anyone else. Another person who is like a brother to me wear a pink charm at his waist. It's little things like that. Recognizing that I want to know who they are and helping me to do that."

The part about his life being difficult as a child? He didn't say anything there. It wasn't untrue but it was fine. It was the past now so he didn't see reason to dwell on it. There were enough things out there for him to focus on that kept him from losing himself in that anyway.

"I feel wanted here. It's a welcome thing."