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[pinkblinded]

It's usually easier and feels better if it's completely.

[Required? No. But he can say that it helps.]

Now this is the part where one of the men will take lead. He will use a lubricant of some kind and pour that onto his fingers. Once both men are in a position they are comfortable in the one taking the lead will prepare the other. Are you following me so far? This next part may take a moment to explain properly.

[outspokenlan]

[ Jingyi's eyes just keep widening. It's like he's being told the worlds most horrifying but fascinating campfire story ever. ]

H- how do you know which one should do that?

[Who normally takes the lead? Was it him or was it Sizhui? Was this something the oldest is supposed to do? Or tallest.. or..]

[pinkblinded]

Whoever feels right honestly. Some people are naturally more suited to one or the other. Others can switch between them. I'd recommend asking your partner if you're unsure of what you want.

Does that help?

[outspokenlan]

Wait.. we're supposed to talk about it first?

[That sounds so awkward! Of course, all of this does.]

[pinkblinded]

Mm...

[He thinks about that question for a moment.]

It's different for everyone. Some people are more comfortable talking with their partners ahead of time to find out what both people are comfortable with. Others just jump right in and ask questions as needed along the way. There's no real rules to sex. It's one of the reasons people enjoy it. The liberating freedom it provides.

[outspokenlan]

There's no rules?

[That explains why some of this is so confusing. He does wonder though if Sizhui would have any rules personally. Jingyi doesn't think he has any, but he's never thought about it before either.]

How do you know if you're doing it right?

[pinkblinded]

You both will feel very, very good.

[He smiles at him.]

Do you want me to keep going?

[outspokenlan]

[He blushes a little and nods. The prudish part inside him keeps thinking he shouldn't be asking for this, but he can't bring himself to say no. This is far too interesting and important.]

Please er-ge.

[pinkblinded]

The one that will be taking the lead will need oil or lubricant. They sell them here. If you need help finding the right one when you are ready then I can help you.

[He knows that will be embarrass his little brother but he wants the offer to be clear.]

From there he will pour some onto his fingers to coat them then bring that hand between the legs of his partner. There is a hole there which it is best to gently rub with oiled fingers before sliding one of the fingers within...

[outspokenlan]

[Oh gods. He has to go and buy this to be ready? If his er-ge is with him it might help but it also sounds horribly embarrassing. Then again, this whole thing does.

As Gaura continues though, he forgets about oil and his eyes about bug out of his head. A hole? The only one he knows of is..]

A- are you talking about- Er-ge! You aren't talking about..

[Don't ask why it's taken Jingyi until just now put this together.]

... your butt?

[pinkblinded]

[Somehow, by some miracle, he manages not to laugh as he nods.]

Yes. I am.

[outspokenlan]

How?! How does that feel good? It's so small and um.. the other is not.

[He knows this has to be true given what his er-ge has said so far about this experience, but its so hard to picture.]

[pinkblinded]

When you have it prepared well by stretching with fingers and oil then it becomes easier for your partner. Then there are nerves inside that when the penis is in there and moving it feels very good.

[He gives him a gentle smile.]

I am someone who is a receiving partner. I promise from personal experience that as long as my partner is careful and making sure I feel good then I always enjoy it.

[outspokenlan]

[He.. really needs to experiment with this. He wonders what kind of oil is in their house he can borrow. Should he wait for Sizhui before he plays around with any of this stuff?]

What else should I know?

[pinkblinded]

A lot of the rest will come naturally. The giving partner will slide the fingers free to replace them with the penis. When you to have reached your orgasms you'll release fluids from your penises as well.

[He offers him a gentle smile]

It seems scary and like so much. But when you're with the right person it just all falls into place. Even mistakes enhance the experience.

[outspokenlan]

[Even mistakes make it better? He wonders how that's possible. All he knows, is that he really, really needs to find out.]

Would you go with me tomorrow to buy what we need?

[After that it'll just be a matter of finding the bravery to do something with Sizhui or himself.]

[pinkblinded]

[He gives him the warmest smile and nods.]

Of course. Come to my place and we'll go out together. I can answer any other questions you have about things we see.

[outspokenlan]

[He rises to his feet and bows at the camera, expression full of gratitude.]

Er-ge, you are so good to me. Thank you for sharing your wisdom! Even if it was mortifying..

[He laughs and winks playfully.]

I'm truly in your debt.

[pinkblinded]

[He laughs, not at all put off by his wisdom being called mortifying. He understands.]

I'm glad I could help, Jingyi. I should go now and get to bed with Henry so I can make sure to be up early to go out with you.

[outspokenlan]

[Jingyi snickers.]

Yes.. I'm sure you're going to find him for sleep. Enjoy your night and I'll see you tomorrow.

[pinkblinded]

[His cheeks flush but he certainly doesn't shy away from the fact.]

Sleep well, A-Yi.