I do too. But, you're honestly better equipped to handle them than I am. Being unable to remember their faces can make things challenging for me unfortunately.
[His cheeks color and he bows his head a little before nodding.]
Yes. I told him about my condition and he started wearing that for me so I could always find him. He's been doing that since before we got engaged actually.
I don't think he always believes it of himself but he had a very kind and generous heart when he gives himself a chance. I'm very honored that I get to see it every single day.
Sometimes people have the worst self-image. They feel like small things they don't like about themselves are much bigger issues than they are, so they end up overshadowing the good traits. It makes me a little sad to see it.
They key is viewing relationships as actual partnerships, I think. Treating your lover as an equal is very important and I think there are a lot of people who get that wrong.
That's true. I've seen it for myself in the past. Truly if more would just treat their partners as such then perhaps there'd be less heartbreak in the world.
The other thing, I think, is remembering that your partner is a whole person without you. They have their own inner world. Their whole point in existence isn't just to be your partner. That's just one role they play.
[That makes him smile so warmly as he thinks about Henry with his studies and how invested he gets in them.]
I love that Henry is his own person with his own passions and interests. When we met we'd spend hours on the couch or in his room and he would just tell me all about the things he'd been reading or learning. It would often go so long that I'd fall asleep and he'd just make sure I was warm and safe.
We still do that and I treasure every moment of watching him just as himself. It's breathtaking whether I can see the emotions or not. Because they're always in his voice and always have been.
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[He truly admires that.]
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(( But the thought of Gaura getting deprived of interactions he loves because of it makes Will pout a little. ))
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I'll be here for you whenever I can, Gaura. That's what friends are for.
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[He smiles fondly at Will.]
I've met so many beautiful people here and I'm grateful for that.
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(( The pout on his face is audible. It's just rude that people didn't want to be friends with such a sweet person as Gaura. ))
Is that why your fiance wears that flower all the time? So you know it's him?
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Yes. I told him about my condition and he started wearing that for me so I could always find him. He's been doing that since before we got engaged actually.
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That's so sweet!
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I love that Henry is his own person with his own passions and interests. When we met we'd spend hours on the couch or in his room and he would just tell me all about the things he'd been reading or learning. It would often go so long that I'd fall asleep and he'd just make sure I was warm and safe.
We still do that and I treasure every moment of watching him just as himself. It's breathtaking whether I can see the emotions or not. Because they're always in his voice and always have been.
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(( Will wiggles a little at the mention of Gaura's sweet treats. ))
I have a feeling you two are going to have a very happy marriage.
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I hope so. I truly love making him happy.
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